Career
Antonia married Polish poet Ladislaus Baron Pilars de Pilar. They had 3 Children: Eduard (1899–1971), Antoinette (1901–1989) and Gabriel (1904–1978). Antonia was the daughter of Friedrich Freiherr von Oer-Egelborg (1842–1896), chamberlain of Charles World War II prince of Isenburg and Gabriele née Khuen von Belasi (1841–1923).
Her son Gabriel married 1935 Anna Herrin und Gräfinance von Stubenberg.
Antonia grew up in Birstein at the court of the prince of Isenburg where her father was chamberlain. At 9. They moved to Struga, at that time a small suburb of Warsaw.
Ladislaus was running there a factory for safes and armour plates. In 1906 some polish insurgents burned down his house and his fabric.
So Paula offered the family a house in Störmede close the Ketteler"s castle Schwarzenraben.
In 1911 she restarted her career as a courtlady of the duchess Marie"s daughter, duchess Marie Antoinette of Mecklenburg-Schwerin. During World War I Antonia and Antoinette were both serving at the Red Cross where she was given the Red Cross Medal of Prussia and several other medals of the house of Mecklenburg-Schwerin. After the war Antonia joined Antoinette travelling through Europe.
As Antoinette died in 1944 in Bled in former Yougoslavia Antonia returned to Störmede.