Background
Xie Daoyun was born in 340. She was a daughter of Xie Yi. It is known that she was one of six children. Xie Daoyun was a sister of the general Xie Xuan and also the favorite niece of prime-minister Xie An.
謝道韞
calligrapher writer scholars disputer poet
Xie Daoyun was born in 340. She was a daughter of Xie Yi. It is known that she was one of six children. Xie Daoyun was a sister of the general Xie Xuan and also the favorite niece of prime-minister Xie An.
It is known that Xie Daoyun's uncle (Xie An) enjoyed gatherings of young people with whom he could talk about literature and philosophy and he often asked them questions as a kind of test to see which of them were outstanding. Xie Daoyun would excel in answering these questions.
About 360, Xie Daoyun married Wang Ningzhi, a young man from the extremely prestigious Wang clan. She bore him several sons and at least one daughter. It is known that while her husband enjoyed a life of comparative freedom, Xie Daoyun participated in debates. One well-known example was the time she offered to rescue her brother-in-law Wang Xianzhi from defeat at the hands of his guests. Seated behind a green silk screen, she extended Wang Xianzhi’s argument and none of his guests, all famous scholars, was able to defeat her.
Xie Daoyun and her children accompanied Wang Ningzhi when he was sent to Jiangzhou (present-day Jiangxi Province) to become a regional inspector. This must have been fairly late in her life as she was already a grandmother by then. When Sun En led a rebellion, he promised divine intervention. Since none came, he and their sons were killed by rebels. Xie Daoyun and her maids then went to meet the rebels. She is said to have killed several insurgents before being taken prisoner. When the rebel leader Sun En planned to kill her grandson as well, she told him to kill her first. It is said that Sun En, cruel and ruthless though he was, was moved by Xie Daoyun’s courage and spared the child.
After her husband’s death, Xie Daoyun lived a widow’s life in the Wang ancestral home in Kuaiji (present-day Shaoxing in Zhejiang Province), managing her household with strict discipline. Yet she did not retire from society entirely.
There were strong Daoist tendencies in Xie Daoyun’s personality and her thought.
Xie Daoyun was the wife of Wang Ningzhi. However, didn't like her husband and complained bitterly about him. Despite her scorn for Wang Ningzhi, she stayed in the marriage and bore him several sons and at least one daughter.