Background
Liu Lingxian was born in Shandong province, but there is no exact information about the date of her birth. She was a daughter of Liu Hui. It is said that more than seventy of her brothers, cousins, and nephews were talented writers.
Liu Lingxian was born in Shandong province, but there is no exact information about the date of her birth. She was a daughter of Liu Hui. It is said that more than seventy of her brothers, cousins, and nephews were talented writers.
Liu Lingxian, also known as The Third Miss Liu, was married to Xu Fei. Xu Fei died in office and when his cortege returned to the capital Jiankang (present-day Nanjing), Liu Lingxian wrote an elegiac oratory (jiwen) expressing her anguish.
Ten of Liu Lingxian’s poems and her most famous work, the elegiac oratory for her husband, have survived and are gathered in Xie Wuliang’s book on the history of the literature of Chinese women. She also wrote a poem to her husband's mistress — Tang Niang. There was no specific prohibition in early pre-modern China against respectable women befriending courtesans, but such conduct was rare. This may be the earliest example of just such a cross-societal relationship. Sharing a love for the same man might have prompted Liu Lingxian to take this unusual action.
Liu Lingxian was a wife of Xu Fei, but he died soon after the marriage. Liu Lingxian was probably still young when her husband died and would have lived as a widow for a number of years after his death. She had no children.