The Guilt and Folly of Suicide
(In the day of affliction, to have an enlightened, affecti...)
In the day of affliction, to have an enlightened, affectionate, and pious friend, capable of soothing our pains and beguiling our sorrows; especially to have the companion of our bosom, that “friend that sticketh closer than a brother” (Prov. 18:24), of this character, is an inestimable blessing. Many a man, by the tender endearments, and the prudent counsel, of a faithful wife, has been guarded from important mistakes, and even snatched from destruction.
But the wife of this afflicted saint was of a very different character. Instead of the soother and lightener of his woes, she became his tormenter. Instead of pointing him to the proper sources of consolation, she tempted him to despair and death. How destitute at once of the softness of her sex, the affection of a companion, and the decorum, to say nothing of the purity of virtue, must that woman have been, who could approach her husband, already overwhelmed by sorrow, with such language as this,” ‘Dost thou still retain thine integrity?’ Wilt thou still serve a master who, in return for all thy faithfulness, has treated thee so unkindly? ‘Curse God, and die’ (Job 2:9)1 Set at defiance that power which has now done its worst. Live no longer in dependence upon him who has loaded thee with miseries. Be thine own deliverer. Take refuge in a voluntary death from a world which offers thee nothing but evil.”
Here appears to be a direct and explicit proposal of suicide.2 And if ever there was a man who might either wisely or innocently have resorted to this mode of terminating his sufferings, perhaps Job was that man. The most abject poverty stared him in the face. The negligence and derision of his former acquaintances must have made him almost willing to fly forever from the sight of man. The strongest ties which bound him to the world had been broken in the loss of his property, and in the death of his children. A distressing, and apparently incurable, disease rendered all future enjoyment of life hopeless. And the only near relative which a bereaving providence had left him, was a grief instead of a comfort.
Many a modern infidel would, no doubt, pronounce these circumstances an abundant justification of suicide, and would readily join this woman in her wicked proposal, “Curse God, and die” (Job 2:9). But Job “feared God, and eschewed evil” (Job 1:1). He had the magnanimity of a man, and the fortitude of a believer. He, therefore, firmly and indignantly replied, “Thou speakest as one of the foolish women speaketh. What? shall we receive good at the hand of God, and shall we not receive evil?” (Job 2:10)
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