Victoria Maria Louisa Hanmer, Lady Hanmer was a childhood companion of the future Queen Victoria.
Background
She was born the youngest daughter of Sir John Conroy, who served as the comptroller of the household of the Duchess of Kent and the young princess. The princess grew up in the controlling Kensington System, managed by John Conroy and the Duchess of Kent.
Career
Victoire saw Victoria most often. The Conroy children came to Kensington Palace, or Victoria was taken to visit the siblings at their home. Victoire was a few months younger than Victoria, and according to historian Carolly Erickson, Victoire was taller and prettier, with dark, hazel eyes, and small regular features.
Aware of Victoire"s inferior social rank, Victoria disliked her, and suspected that Victoire reported their activities to John Conroy.
Victoria soon began referring to Victoire as "Mississippi V. Conroy" in her journals, a sign of displeasure.
Victoire appears in the princess" journals and watercolours as a person "frequently noted but never analyzed," in contrast with Victoria"s writings of her governess Louise Lehzen, for instance. Carolly Erickson conjectures that had Victoire been "warm and friendly" to the princess, the "lonely" Victoria would have liked rather than disliked and distrusted her.
Erickson does acknowledge however that Victoire was placed in an awkward position: while she was the daughter of Victoria"s hated enemy, Victoire was still forced into contact with the princess.
Little otherwise is known of Victoire. Victoire married Sir Wyndham Edward Hanmer, 4th Baronet on 10 March 1842. They had one son, Sir Edward John Henry Hanmer, 5th Baronet
(15 April 1843 – 3 May 1893).