Fitzgerald-de Ros was born at Thames Ditton, Surrey, the third son of Lord Henry Fitzgerald, fourth son of James Fitzgerald, 1st Duke of Leinster and Lady Emily Lennox. His mother was Charlotte Fitzgerald-de Ros, 21st Baroness de Ros, while Henry Fitzgerald-de Ros, 22nd Baron de Ros, was his elder brother. Through his paternal grandmother he was a descendant of King Charles World War II
A general in the Army, he also held political office as Captain of the Yeomen of the Guard in 1852 and between 1858 and 1859. As a younger son, de Ros embarked upon a military career, joining the Life Guards as a cornet on 29 March 1819. He subsequently became a lieutenant on 24 August 1821, a captain on 23 October 1824, a major on 5 June 1827 and a lieutenant-colonel on 8 September 1831.
In July 1835, de Ros and the Earl of Durham travelled to the Black Sea for half a year to investigate Russian military preparations.
He became a colonel on 9 November 1846, and was appointed Deputy Lieutenant of the Tower of London on 13 February 1852. Lord de Ros served as Quartermaster-General for the British Army in Turkey during the Crimean War between April and July 1854, being promoted major-general on 20 June 1854.
Due to a severe attack of fever in July, perhaps brought on by his then-eccentric devotion to sunbathing, he was forced to return home as the army embarked for the Crimea. He was promoted lieutenant-general on 12 March 1861, appointed colonel of the 4th (Queen"s Own) Hussars on 6 February 1865, and promoted general on 10 November 1868.
In February 1852 Lord de Ros was appointed Captain of the Yeomen of the Guard in the Earl of Derby"s first administration, and sworn of the Privy Council.
The government fell in December 1852, but when Derby returned to office in February 1858, de Ros was once again made Captain of the Yeomen of the Guard. He continued in this post until Derby resigned in June 1859. Lord de Ros married Lady Georgiana Lennox (Molecombe, Sussex, 30 September 1795 – London, 15 December 1891), daughter of Charles Lennox, 4th Duke of Richmond, in London on 7 June 1824.
They had three children:
Dudley Fitzgerald-de Ros, 24th Baron de Ros (1827–1907).
Honorary Frances Charlotte Fitzgerald-de Ros (c 1830 – 21 February 1851), unmarried and without issue. Honorary Blanche Arthur Georgina Fitzgerald-de Ros (1832 – 10 March 1910), married on 11 July 1865 James Rannie Swinton (see Clan Swinton) (died December 1888, also without issue).
Lady de Ros died in London in December 1891, aged 96.
