Career
Self has appeared in many television shows as a recurring, featured or guest actor and has also starred in his own show Jeffery & Cole Casserole. He is the author of two books: Fifty Shades Of Gay and Straight People: A Spotters Guide. He also hosts a weekly podcast called This Is Really Important, on iTunes.
He is represented by Avalon Entertainment and ICM. Self is openly gay.
He dated Australian standup comedian Joel Creasey from 2014 to 2015.