Background
O'Brien was born on the Baluchistan border in India to Colonel Aubrey O'Brien an Indian Army officer.
O'Brien was born on the Baluchistan border in India to Colonel Aubrey O'Brien an Indian Army officer.
Exeter College; Stowe School.
The O'Brien family is one of the oldest lines of descent in Europe, dating back from much earlier than the Irish High King Brian Boru (941-1014). At the age of five O'Brien was sent to England. As his elder brother's initials TOB had given rise to the nickname Toby, he was known as Toby2, leading to subsequent confusion.
Before Oxford he spent a term in Germany at Leipzig. At Oxford University he was President of the Oxford Union in 1932 and took part in a transatlantic debate with Harvard University. O'Brien became a journalist, working at the Daily Telegraph, initially as assistant and eventually as editor of the Peterborough column.
In 1936 he went to Germany ostensibly as a reporter but with a hidden agenda of assessing the Nazi regime and possible opponents of it. In 1938 he was recruited to the British Council as press officer. His duties, which were to secure favourable publicity for the council and its activities and to provide articles and photographs for the foreign press, in fact represented Britain's counter to Goebbels' Nazi propaganda.
Aside from maintaining a network of supporters in the foreign press and pointing out German lies (including their claims that they had sunk Royal Navy ships, which were, in fact, inland naval bases bearing the HMS prefix), O'Brien is credited with penning the lyrics to the Colonel Bogey tune "Hitler Has Only Got One Ball". After the war O'Brien became public relations adviser for Rootes and was then recruited to the Conservative Party, leading the election campaigns which led to the hung parliament of 1950 and the Conservative victory in 1951. He became a public relations consultant, and one of his first clients was the government of Spain which wanted to promote tourism.
Since the Spanish Civil War Spain had been out of favour in British circles and its obscurity as a holiday destination at the time was indicated by O'Brien's question "Costa Brava, where is that?". Between 1953-55, O'Brien was called in to apply his skills in the campaign to establish commercial television in Britain. Toby O'Brien died at the age of 69 from undisclosed causes.
O'Brien married Sylvia Denny on 12 February 1936. Sylvia O'Brien died in 1950.
Later he was well known in political circles for his "No Strings" parties when senior politicians from both parties attended his annual gathering with no strings attached.