Background
Carter, James Jay was born on August 24, 1946 in Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania, United States. Son of Mark Taylor and Leona Pearl (Gutkoski) Carter.
( Fourteen years since its first publication, the bestsel...)
Fourteen years since its first publication, the bestsellerNasty People has been revised and updated to cover the motivations of nasty people, how to avoid confrontation with a nasty boss, how to handle a nasty spouse, and much more, including: • How to break the cycle of nastiness • A new understanding of personality disorders and depression • Narcissism, nasty behavior, and self-doubt • Nasty people and self-validation • The role adrenaline plays in nasty behavior and our responses to it. Everyone knows a person who has been hurt, betrayed, or degraded by nasty individuals or has experienced it themselves. In three books, Jay Carter, Psy. D., shows readers how to stop this cycle of overt and covert abuse, without resorting to nasty tactics. Now for the first time, this series is released together to cover all areas of dealing with difficult people. With straight-talking advice, real-life anecdotes, and psychology that makes sense, Carter explains how to handle and stop painful behavior that harms both the perpetrator and the victim.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0071410228/?tag=2022091-20
( The second book in this important series discusses what...)
The second book in this important series discusses what to do when nasty men try to use guilt, manipulation, and "reason" to get their way, and differentiates truly nasty behavior from everyday frustrations that arise between men and women. In Nasty Men, Carter defines several "nasty types," including: • The verbal batterer--who uses intimate secrets as ammunition to attack the self-esteem of others • The Don Juan--whose charming attentiveness conceals a chronically deceitful personality • The liar--who says one thing in front of loved ones but something else behind their backs • The Cro-Magnon man--whose attitude turns relationships into battlegrounds Everyone knows a person who has been hurt, betrayed, or degraded by nasty individuals or has experienced it themselves. In three books, Jay Carter, Psy. D., shows readers how to stop this cycle of overt and covert abuse, without resorting to nasty tactics. Now for the first time, this series is released together to cover all areas of dealing with difficult people. With straight-talking advice, real-life anecdotes, and psychology that makes sense, Carter explains how to handle and stop painful behavior that harms both the perpetrator and the victim.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0071417761/?tag=2022091-20
(Children need to learn at an early age that their actions...)
Children need to learn at an early age that their actions will have consequences. Negative actions having negative consequences. They must learn to take responsibility for these actions. And to know how one "seemingly" little thing you do can affect so many so greatly... They need to learn and experience respect, caring and love both for themselves and others. We all need to work together on solving these problems. Violence is an extreme form of "bullying." A worse case scenario. Most of the time these kids started out being picked on themselves. In my book we call this the "BULLY CYCLE." Bullies creating more bullies. Becoming a bully as a means of protecting yourself (or so you think) ... hoping if you are the one causing the pain, you will never again have to experience it yourself. They feel so bad about themselves and think that controlling someone else will make them feel better or help distract from their own problems. Children today feel numb ... some have been bullied to the point of feeling nothing. They are withdrawn and hopeless. If all kids could understand how to accept themselves and know that they're "OK", there wouldn't have to be any "Bullies" or "Victims". This book helps parents, teachers and children give kids the skills they need to deal with BULLIES and maintain healthy SELF-ESTEEM. It is intended to help both the bullies and the victims feel good about themselves, thereby lessening the recent violence we've experienced in our schools. 1 out of 4 kids will be bullied this month. IT'S TIME TO DO SOMETHING!
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0937004111/?tag=2022091-20
(This book deals with the sector of the population called ...)
This book deals with the sector of the population called Invalidators. Invalidation could very well be the cause of poor self esteem, mental anguish and overall unhappiness.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0317026933/?tag=2022091-20
Carter, James Jay was born on August 24, 1946 in Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania, United States. Son of Mark Taylor and Leona Pearl (Gutkoski) Carter.
Bachelor in Computer Science, Thomas A. Edison College, 1975. Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology, Goddard College, 1977. Doctor of Psychology Interpersonal Communications, Greenwich University, 1990.
Computer programmer, International Business Machines Corporation Corporation, Warminster, Pennsylvania, 1969-1980; manager, International Business Machines Corporation Corporation, Reading, Pennsylvania, 1980-1992; author, Reading, since 1979; therapist, Aldersgate, Willow Grove, Pennsylvania, 1974-1980; clinician, Family Guidance Center, Reading, 1993-1994; clinician, Family Guidance Center, Reading, 1993-1994; psychologist, Center for Self Esteem, West Reading, Pennsylvania, since 1996. Adjunct faculty various colleges in Pennsylvania, 1973-1994. Professional speaker in field.
( Fourteen years since its first publication, the bestsel...)
( The second book in this important series discusses what...)
(Children need to learn at an early age that their actions...)
(This book deals with the sector of the population called ...)
(How to spot and conquer nasty behavior. Learn the secrets...)
(Self-help)
Member American Psychological Association, Berks Area Psychological Association.
Married Linda Lee Brandenburg (divorced). Children: James Robert, Shannon Taylor. Married Sheila Ann Sen, October 29, 1988.
Children: Wendi, Stephen Lee, Keanue.